So tomorrow I will be going to the cemetery to clean and tidy your grave and place the many bits and bobs I’ve bought for you for Christmas.

It doesn’t feel like it’s enough…..and I always wonder what it is I would be buying for you this year……

What would you look like….what mannerisms would you have….would you look like me or your dad…..

If you haven’t already done so…. Buy or make a little something to place on your tree, that represents your child.

I find it helps and let people know that’s for your child it helps you talk about them at Christmas.

You won’t believe the time it took me to find a gender neutral angel….cause to me it couldn’t be a girly looking one.

You always feel like you have forgotten something don’t you….

You haven’t you have spent weeks thinking of what you can buy to place on your child’s grave and found the perfect thing.

What we are missing is the extra stocking the extra present, the things you may have bought, the momories we won’t make……

What we don’t see is that item we have bought for our child’s grave took more time, thought, emotion than any other gift…we are making memories.

They live on in our hearts, minds and thoughts……

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton