I hear so many people say I can’t get over it…..
I don’t think we do, the grief remains, but somehow with almighty strength we grow around it.
I would explain it best as a roundabout where the busy life goes along the road but the island remains still in the middle, sometimes there are flowers and trees, but it remained strong in the middle.
Punishing yourself for not getting over it, doesn’t help. Accept that this will have an effect on who you are now and let yourself grow around it.
Your lost loved ones are with you forever, safe in your heart ❤️