I remember feeling immense guilt for smiling or laughing during the early weeks of bereavement and remember myself actually saying “oh I musnt laugh”…..
I tell you this if I hadn’t have had those moments…the little laughter or moments that made me smile….I wouldn’t be writing this blog.
It’s ok to smile, it’s ok to laugh, it’s ok to crack a joke in moments of grief….it’s ok because….it’s ok…. you don’t need to justify your actions to nobody do what feels right…..nobody can tell you how to grieve ππ
This is so very true. It is just as ok to laugh as it is to cry. Itβs your grief, you can do whatever you want with it.
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Thankyou, most definitely xx
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