It’s ok not to be ok…

Do what feels right for you…I used to visit my son’s grave every Christmas morning after we had done the presents. After a while I chose not to go on Christmas day as it changed my mindset for the whole day.

Don’t do what people expect you to do, don’t feel pressured. Only you know how best to deal with your loss over the Christmas period.

And if that means you just want a quiet private Christmas or even some time alone… then that’s what you should do. If you change your mind during the day having already made plans…then that’s ok too. Follow your heart, and don’t worry about what other people think as only you knows you properly xxx

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